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Monday, October 27, 2008

How to Date

I wrote this content a month ago. I applied for an online job and sent this article, but I was not hired. Sadly, the employer did not like it. But still, I want to share with you my knowledge about "romance". Eoww Did I say that? I am having goosbumps!

Anyways, I like what I wrote here... I must like it for the reason that I wrote it hahahaha!


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Some guys think that dating a woman is an easy task. They may be right but what if they are wrong?

Dating is like a hit and miss thing. If you get lucky, you would surely hit the right spot. Otherwise, you would end up in a blog that is ridiculed and mocked by its readers, or worse, your whole neighbor would know how pathetic you are.

First and foremost, you should do your research on what the woman you would date wants. Ask her friends or do some investigating of your own, but I am not asking you to stalk on her! And mind you, be alert on her actions towards anything. Remember, “Action speaks louder that words.”. It is an old saying but it surely is true up to now.

Before asking the girl out, be confident of yourself. Practice in front of the mirror on how you would ask her out. Be as natural as you can be. You do not have to be good-looking for the woman to date you. What you need is confidence. But, do not be overconfident. Remember, you are asking her out. It is like you are selling yourself to a person who is not interested in buying, but with your charm, she should get interested.

One of the characteristics that women want is guys who are down-to-earth but confident in himself. He should also know that women are intelligent beings. They will know if you are lying to them or not. Lay out all your cards on the table and be open. Women love honest guys. If you are married, tell her that you are married! There are women who are willing to date married men, I tell you. Think how in the world a married man does it. For one, he is confident, he stays cool, he’s got charm, and he does not talk much. Add an air of mystery in your personality. It is just a little of everything. Like a delicious gourmet that has been prepared by a great chef.

Before I forget, you must wear clothes that are apt for the location of your date. Jeans with a blazer is always safe. Be aware of the latest fashion trends and make sure they look good on you.

When in a date, use your most flashy car. No, do not use your beetle car! But, if you do not have a nice car, make an alibi. It is like, “I do know you are expecting that I bring my own car because I want to set my eyes on you and not on the road.”. That is so cheesy but it will work! Women love cheesy words. They may smile or smirk, but deep inside, they are thinking you are cute. I know a guy who, on his first date to a very popular woman, let her ride on his motorbike! He joked on the woman saying that he wanted her to ride the bike so that when he accelerates the small vehicle, she would embrace him tight. And it worked! She got the very popular girl.

To wrap things up, you have to be yourself. Do not pretend. Be confident. And most important of all, be funny! I am not saying that you should burst out funny words every now and then. Have a little bit of everything.

 
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5 comments:

mad1421 said...

Thanks for the tips... :))

"Action speaks louder that words."
That is true,
so we need to study body language..
(but this subject is not allowed in our school.. LOL )

Allure said...

@mad,
I am gonna punch you hahahah!

Allure said...

i will punch you maddy!

searchingwithin said...

I have grown to love and appreciate your blog, and I have left you an award over at my place. Hope you like it.

Allure said...

@searchingwithin,
Wow! Thank you very much!

 
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